if you cant be with the one you love love the one you're with

sometimes people ask me if I like being single. I always tell them it is better to be single than in a miserable shitty relationship. 

add 'going through a miserable shitty break up' to that

one of my mates married three years ago almost, only to be separated 6 months later. she is now divorced.

today she got a call from the mirrabooka police chasing up her ex-husband. he is being charged with fraud. 

she has wednesday off work to put the caveat back on the house they owned (it expires after 6 months, so this is a 6 monthly trek for her) and she is still waiting for him to pay up for what she is entitled to from their divorce.

he also hasn't been paying the mortgage on the house they owned.  

now she finds out he is being charged with fraud.

I would much rather be a crazy cat lady than deal with that shit.